Relationships: Intimate Sphere

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I did recently publish my thoughts on the high visibility Gates divorce. If you missed it, you can read it there - in-2-me-i-see . Wise is one who learns from the mistakes of another without repeating the same mistakes and freeing herself to make her unique set of mistakes :-). Here are some additional pearls of wisdom I take away from this saga:

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1. Prenup:

   A prenuptial agreement is a private agreement between a couple signed before they get married which sets forth the division of their assets in the event of divorce or death. I don’t care if you have $5 or $500,000 Billion you need to know how and what happens with your assets including bad credit/debt.

   Lesson: Get a prenup, design it amicably taking your and his vision into account.

2. Don’t Be a Moron:

   Bill’s daughter has been spending quality time with her dad. Of course she is his daughter so it’s given she loves and respects him but also cause she sees Melinda mistreated her father. Melinda knew about Ann and Bill, yet she waited it out till Ann got married in 2015 and then in 2019 actively started executing on the divorce from Bill. Cruel. Very cruel on Melinda’ part.

   Lesson: Don’t ever stoop so low to make another human’s life a living hell.

3. Ann Waited till 64 to Get Married:

   Ann waited till she turned 64 to get married. 64 years without an intimate committed life-partner, that’s brutal, and painful. My heart hurts for Ann. In life each soul has multiple life-partners.

   Lesson: Learn to allow yourself to find one who loves you true and loves enough to commit to you.

4. Be Love & Live Love:

   Be Love. When you are love you will never play mind-games or be a moron as discussed in 3 above. And in so doing you will live love. I have designed all spheres of my life on the love frequency, my intimate sphere too will kick off when my man shows up into my life and rest assured it will be based on love. :-)

   Lesson: Design all spheres of your life based on the love frequency.

5. Stand-up For Yourself:

   In all that has unfolded Bill played a passive role in his own intimate sphere. Had he stood up for his feelings for Ann, stoop-up for himself, stood-up for Melinda by releasing her from his life for she deserves love too, stood-up for his heart things would have shaped up very differently today for Bill. It’s imperative you set clear vision for your intimate sphere and then play full-out on executing it.

   Lesson: Stand-up for your heart. Stand-up for Love. Stand-up for yourself in your intimate sphere.